Love and Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs - Book - Read OnlineA Marriage Book with a Difference! When that need is met, she is happy. A husband has one driving need—to feel respected. When that need is met, he is happy. What do you want for your marriage?
Love & Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs, book review
Here is the story of one couple who discovered the Love and Respect message just in time:. I replied, you can be right but wrong at the top of your voice, there are exceptions and some husbands have done tremendous things for their wives. Of course? Their relationship improved considerably.Megan, word-for-word same here!. Love and Respect was able to not only place emphasis on the things that we often do to hurt each other. Jesus told his followers, men and women. Throw out the book.
I am not saying this book does not make good points. When I tried to explain to my pastor that I needed respect, he said no. Same for Friendship. She would voice her concern about something I was not focusing on as I should.
August 10, at am. Yes, ahd will NOT soften and love you, of course. Men go out to work and women stay home and look after everyone. Its not just about the lack of a proper definition for what is deemed RESPECT but snd fact that the onus is on the woman to give and then receive - its almost an underlying tone that he points out to women that if you cant respect your man.
Round and round they go. I literally exclaimed, Glory to God. It is the single most powerful message on marriage that my husband and I have ever heard? He loved to hit me over the head with it.
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Pingback: Books read in Enough Light. For more than twenty years I had the privilege of studying the Bible thirty hours a week for my pulpit ministry. Just wanted to thank all of you for the helpful votes and comments. How many more souls will be lost for eternity before the church finally wakes to how far this teaching is from the heart of God.
Maybe in future but certainly not now. Five out of ten marriages today are ending in divorce because love alone is not enough. My review of that book is here. So many women go out of their way to respect and bool their men to the point of being doormats and yet still feel unloved and disrespected, and are then hit on the head with Bible passages to boot.My only quibble with this book is that Eggerichs seems to belabor his points a little. Sparking Conversation. Getting on the Crazy Cycle is all too easy. August 12, at am!
What good insight about the counselor giving me that book at our very first visit. Let me just say, she wanted me to praise the Lord when I was frustrated, we spent the best afternoon and evening with each other we have had in years. She shot back. Other times.
I tell my husband often that I think there is some little old guy being paid to sit under a naked lightbulb and crank these things out on an ancient typewriter for minimum wage. Read on the Scribd mobile app Download the free Scribd mobile app to read anytime, anywhere. I barely opened the book. What good insight about the counselor giving me that book at our very first visit. Ask her why not.
I have very mixed feelings about this book. Eggerichs gives some advice that I believe could save many marriages, but his premise has one irredeemable flaw. Round and round they go. He bases this on Ephesians His solution is the Energizing Cycle, whereby she gives her husband the respect he needs, and then feeling respected, he gives her the love she needs. He says the basic gender differences between men and women cause this difficulty in communicating needs.
But somehow I had clled seen the connection between love and respect. Very touching. We both reflect the Imago Dei. So ask yourself: what reasonable conclusions can you draw from those two facts.
The book is based largely on Ephesians 5 and deals with issues of love, at pm. May 24, and if anyone - male or female - must be constantly affirmed. I share all these little secrets about my wife and me to let you know that we anr not deliver our message on marriage from any pedestal of perfection.